pornography : Gay & Black Glossary

The law has not quite sorted out what is legal and what is not. I understand it is illegal to view or possess sexual images of children, even if they were not purchased, or if they are drawings or computer animations where no child models were exploited. How is a child defined seems fuzzy too. That strikes me as illogical. The crime should be harming children, not having one of the outer philias. We don’t want pedophiles attacking kids. We don’t want them bottling all sexual drive like medieval priests, only to burst out uncontrollably. We want them masturbating harmlessly to porn. Why are we instituting measures that will cause the reverse?

When the age of consent is 21, as it was here in Canada for gays in 1969, it makes no sense to punish someone for having sex with a 20 year old who lied about their age. There has to be some leeway for children who look much older than they are. All that happens is you get 20 year olds blackmailing for a living. For a law to work, it has to be perceived as fair, and the majority of people must be willing to comply with it.

I think pretty much anything else besides child pornography goes, though I am not sure about bestiality (barnyard sex).

You can use Google or Google Image to search for particular types of porn. Turn off Search settings ⇒ Safe Search Filtering first.

Advantages

• People who are old, ill, ugly, unattractive, isolated can still enjoy prime partners they would never have a chance with in real life.
• It is cheap compared with courting.
• It is always available without hours searching.
• It is educational. It lets you know which sexual activities are considered normal and which aberrant. It shows you various ways they can be done. It warns you that if you ask someone to beat you with a wet salmon, your request may not go over well.

Disadvantages

• The department of homeland security monitors the phone and Internet traffic of private citizens on a massive scale. Presumably they then know your pornography preferences including your type. They can use this to entice or bully you into doing something you would not otherwise do, such as remain silent.
• You are likely to escalate your demands for perfection, and narrow your type to one in ten million people. You may start demanding perfection in real life too. You have very little chance of meeting such people, and if you did they won’t be interested.
• You can become intimidated by the well hung, youthful athletic actors and withdraw from real sex altogether.
• Out of boredom, you might find yourself drifting into one of the disreputable philias or even one of the illegal ones.

I don’t have information on how the SexToyFun porn on your TV service works, though lots of people have purchased it, and nobody asked for a refund. I don’t know the ratio of straight to gay porn provided.