The first question we usually ask new parents is : Is it a boy or a girl?. There is a great answer to that one going around : We don’t know; it hasn’t told us yet. Personally, I think no question containing either/or deserves a serious answer, and that includes the question of gender.

~ Kate Bornstein (1948-03-25 age:70) Gender Outlaw: On Men, Women and the Rest of Us