Watch some guppies, cuttlefish, salamanders, frogs or penguins courting. The males will approach female after female, nearly always getting turned down. The animals don’t make the classic errors that humans do:
~ Roedy (1948-02-04 age:69)
- Decide based on a string of rejections that they will forever after be rejected because of inherent unworthiness and withdraw to sulk. Even one-legged frogs compete as vigorously as they can.
- Postulate there is only one soul-mate female salamander in the universe and as long as she says no, there is no hope.